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Getting help when your child is in hospitalGGetting help when your child is in hospitalGetting help when your child is in hospitalEnglishNAChild (0-12 years);Teen (13-18 years)NANASupport, services and resourcesCaregivers Adult (19+)NA2012-06-13T04:00:00ZNA8.0000000000000066.0000000000000609.000000000000Flat ContentHealth A-Z<p>Coping with your child's illness as a parent means taking care of yourself. Learn practical stress relief approaches for parents.</p><p>Most people are not in a position to be able to suddenly drop everything in their lives and be with their <a href="/Article?contentid=1161&language=English">sick child in the hospital</a> 24 hours a day. Even parents who may be independently wealthy will have to make arrangements that will require more than just money. For example, there may be other children in the family who still require competent and trustworthy care.</p><p>All families will have to keep on with many aspects of their lives, no matter what. Income and other financial matters cannot be ignored for long; children need to be cared for, and transportation needs to be arranged. Juggling all of this while still visiting a child, perhaps for extended periods in the hospital, will be difficult. You cannot do it all yourself. There will certainly be resources and other help that can be accessed at the hospital which you should take advantage of. But do not stop there. Draw on whatever other resources you have. </p> ​<h2>Key points</h2> <ul> <li>If you have a sick child in the hospital you will still need to keep up with other aspects of your daily life such as caring for other children and meeting work and financial obligations. Draw on the resources you have and get the help that you need.</li> <li>You may be able to get some help from the hospital and community health services for certain things, but do not be afraid to ask family, friends and neighbours for help especially with the day-to-day tasks around the home.</li> </ul>
Obtenir de l’aide lorsque votre enfant est à l’hôpitalOObtenir de l’aide lorsque votre enfant est à l’hôpitalGetting help when your child is in hospitalFrenchNAChild (0-12 years);Teen (13-18 years)NANASupport, services and resourcesCaregivers Adult (19+)NA2012-06-13T04:00:00ZFlat ContentHealth A-Z<p>Faire face à la maladie de votre enfant en tant que parent signifie prendre soin de vous. Découvrez des approches pratiques de soulagement du stress pour les parents.</p><p>La plupart des gens ne sont pas en position de soudainement tout laisser tomber dans leur vie et être auprès de leur enfant malade à l’hôpital 24 heures par jour. Même les parents qui pourraient être indépendants financièrement devront faire des arrangements qui requièrent plus qu’uniquement de l’argent. Par exemple, il peut y avoir d’autres enfants dans la famille qui ont toujours besoin de soins compétents et de confiance. </p><p>Toutes les familles devront aller de l’avant avec plusieurs aspects de leur vie, peu importe les circonstances. Les revenus et les autres aspects financiers ne peuvent être ignorés bien longtemps, on doit prendre soin des enfants et le transport doit être organisé. Jongler avec tous ces aspects tout en visitant un enfant à l’hôpital, peut-être pour une période prolongée, sera difficile. Vous ne pouvez pas tout faire par vous même. Il y aura certainement des ressources et d’autres formes d’aide qui pourront être évaluées à l’hôpital et dont pour devriez vous prévaloir. Mais ne vous arrêtez pas là. Tirez profit de toutes les ressources que vous pouvez avoir. </p><h2>À retenir</h2><ul><li>Si vous avez un enfant malade à l’hôpital, vous devrez quand même vous occuper des autres aspects de votre vie quotidienne comme prendre soin des autres enfants et remplir vos obligations financières et professionnelles. Puisez dans les ressources que vous avez et obtenez l’aide dont vous avez besoin. </li><li>Il se peut que vous soyez capable d’obtenir de l’aide de l’hôpital et des services de santé communautaires pour certaines choses, mais n’ayez pas peur de demander à la famille, aux amis et aux voisins de vous aider, particulièrement dans les tâches de la vie quotidienne autour de la maison.</li></ul>

 

 

Getting help when your child is in hospital1152.00000000000Getting help when your child is in hospitalGetting help when your child is in hospitalGEnglishNAChild (0-12 years);Teen (13-18 years)NANASupport, services and resourcesCaregivers Adult (19+)NA2012-06-13T04:00:00ZNA8.0000000000000066.0000000000000609.000000000000Flat ContentHealth A-Z<p>Coping with your child's illness as a parent means taking care of yourself. Learn practical stress relief approaches for parents.</p><p>Most people are not in a position to be able to suddenly drop everything in their lives and be with their <a href="/Article?contentid=1161&language=English">sick child in the hospital</a> 24 hours a day. Even parents who may be independently wealthy will have to make arrangements that will require more than just money. For example, there may be other children in the family who still require competent and trustworthy care.</p><p>All families will have to keep on with many aspects of their lives, no matter what. Income and other financial matters cannot be ignored for long; children need to be cared for, and transportation needs to be arranged. Juggling all of this while still visiting a child, perhaps for extended periods in the hospital, will be difficult. You cannot do it all yourself. There will certainly be resources and other help that can be accessed at the hospital which you should take advantage of. But do not stop there. Draw on whatever other resources you have. </p> ​<h2>Key points</h2> <ul> <li>If you have a sick child in the hospital you will still need to keep up with other aspects of your daily life such as caring for other children and meeting work and financial obligations. Draw on the resources you have and get the help that you need.</li> <li>You may be able to get some help from the hospital and community health services for certain things, but do not be afraid to ask family, friends and neighbours for help especially with the day-to-day tasks around the home.</li> </ul><h2>Typical needs</h2><p>Depending on the expected length of stay, the distance to the hospital from your home, and other factors, think about getting help for the following:</p><ul><li>taking care of other children and dependent family members</li><li>keeping up with the bills and other financial matters </li><li>keeping up with the demands at work </li><li>preparing for their child's eventual discharge and arrival home </li><li>managing time between hospital stays and the rest of life's ongoing responsibilities</li></ul><p>While there may be various services available through the hospital to help you with these issues, think about who else can help. Family, friends and neighbours are a good place to look to find what you cannot get from the hospital or <a href="/Article?contentid=1155&language=English">community health service</a> agencies.</p><h2>Practical tips</h2><p>Making a list of all that you need in terms of practical help may be useful. Going after specific things from specific people and agencies may be less overwhelming. Also, as things get done and are ticked off the list, the stress level will likely drop.</p><p>Get in touch with friends and family and ask them to do specific things, such as:</p><ul><li>car pooling to lessons or school</li><li>making family dinners or bringing meals to the house; <a href="http://takethemameal.com/" target="_blank">Take Them a Meal</a> is a website that helps family and friends coordinate a meal schedule</li><li>doing laundry</li><li>watering plants</li><li>tidying and cleaning</li><li>taking out the garbage and recycling</li><li>mail collection</li></ul><p>When people ask "Is there anything I can do to help?" say "Yes!" and give them something to do off your list.</p><p>Assign someone to be the conduit of information. Parents can often get frustrated or overwhelmed when friends and relatives are all phoning, asking how the sick child is doing. Appoint one person to inform the rest and keep that one person informed. <br></p><p>Realize that some people are going to be more helpful than others, and not necessarily the ones you expected.</p><p>Above all, do not be embarrassed to ask for help. Most friends and family members will be glad to have something to help you with during this difficult time.</p><img alt="" src="https://assets.aboutkidshealth.ca/AKHAssets/getting_help_when_your_child_is_in_hospital.jpg" style="BORDER:0px solid;" />https://assets.aboutkidshealth.ca/AKHAssets/getting_help_when_your_child_is_in_hospital.jpgGetting help when your child is in hospital

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